OK, I've learned a lot and I'm almost there.
I made a new xml file called head_biped.xml which only has the head KC attached. Then I had to find a way to move it to the Pi and put it in the right directory. A little research on Google and I found a program called WinSCP. It was on a website called ninite.com. It's basically an FTP program showing you all the folders and files in your local computer on one side and all the folders and files on the Pi on the other. You can just drag and drop files from one side to the other to move files around. I'm just posting this so others who might have similar questions can save some time and do what I did.
I set up blender, and ran the -c command using the new name for the xml and then connected in blender and it worked to some degree. I feel I am really close right now. The head started moving with the KC. It looked kind of like Linda Blair in the Exorcist, but it was moving.
I did the timed calibration, but things are still out of wack.
I downloaded a compass app so I could face SOUTH while running the calibration, but I was using my desktop computer with a monitor mounted on the wall that faces pretty much North, so it was hard to calibrate while facing the opposite direction as the screen.
I'm not sure how I should orient the KC on my head. When I attach it so that the model is looking straight forward, I can rotate my head back and forth, and it seems to move correctly, but when I nod my head, it tilts instead, and when I tilt it nods, but there is no way to orient it so that those motions are correct without affecting the rotation.
The axes also don't seem to relate to any normal position of the KC. To get it to nod straight up and down, it has to be at a 45° angle.
So I still don't know how to calibrate it correctly I guess or the right way to orient it on my head. Should it be on my forehead with the in and out connectors facing away from my head on the top? Should it be on top of my head like a hat? I'm not sure how it should be attached.
If I can just get the calibration correct and have it move the way my head is moving, I'll be done.
The other question I have is once calibrated, do I always have to only face south to use this? I understand that since I don't have the dorsal or base connected it has to assume that I am always facing South. The body won't move, but the head will spinning it around backwards. I'm good with that, because my skeletons can't move around freely anyway, so I am happy scoping out which way is south and setting up in front of a laptop, or maybe I just connect the rest of the KCepters and get full motion, but I think that may confuse my conversion process to my servo controllers.
So I need to figure out the correct orientation of the KC on my head and why it is moving different axes than I am after calibration. Once I get this working, I'll add in the arms and see how that goes.
Note to NakedRabbit, The 'body' branch that you questioned is correct. Although it's not moving quite the way it should be. it is moving the head using the code exactly as you pasted in a couple posts up.