I had the same issue, chordata-net either not showing up or unable to connect to it.
What I did:
I connected a monitor and keyboard to the raspberry and set up the language code thingy manually according to the documentation - after that it still didn't work and there was a ssh error on booting the pi, this got solved by:
sudo ssh-keygen -A
sudo service ssh --full-restart
(regenerate all default ssh keys and restart the ssh service)
after this it launches the chordata-net correctly each reboot